Today is Monday and just like every Monday in the World it is the beginning of the work week. But for a childcare provider its a reunion. Its so exciting, I feel so welcomed and invited when i see my kids on Mondays they miss me. I could barely get into the door (literally) with the 1 year old (lonnie) blocking the door and the 3 year old (Mi Mi) screaming my name. With a welcome like that I had to be spontaneous and do something we rarely to on Mon, go to the park.
In between pushes on the swing i tried to get a dating planner going for the weekend. I believe in dating friends (No Homo) meaning if you just meet a interesting person in class, and the girl seems to share a lot of common interest and could grow from being associate to "Girls" and possibly BFF. Relationships are the same rather your with a boy or a girl gay or straight, people need attention. Some need one on one time, petting, comfort, intimacy, gifts. Dont act like you never had to hold your girl-friends hand and comfort her when that guy dumped her, then by the end of the night bought her dinner and let her spend the night. These simply lil things count and make our relationships on both sides flourish. I learn this throw my friend and big sister Kristy ( who looks exactly like Tasha Smith) she would pick me up and got to the grocery store buy strawberries and whip cream and **grapes~~~~ and go to the leave and talk. That was a date because it was all on her; love her for that. So as i was saying I tried to call my long time friend but she has been so occupied with this guy and it really sucks cuz she dose it all the time; get with a guy for a week indulge all her time in him break up with him and then find someone else for the next week, i haven't seen her in a month.







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